GIRLS GETAWAY FAVES

 

I'm back in NYS after a glorious time on Cape Cod, in the village of Falmouth and I'm sharing FIVE of my FAVE things  about my "girls getaway" with my two church friends, Maggie and Meg.  Maggie has been in my Tuesday evening small group Bible study for a year and both ladies are in my SoulSteps hiking group. 

I'm linking up with Susanne where other bloggers also join in to be intentional about giving thanks each week for the blessings that God brought into our lives. 

FIVE FAVES

Our AirBnB in Falmouth on the Cape
most homes on the cape and on the south shore Boston
are ranch style or cape cod style.  This is a ranch
with 3 bedrooms,  and the bathroom up just 6 steps;
 living room, kitchen, 
theme room (family room in basement)
large laundry/storage area in basement
backyard movie theater, firepit
and the side deck on the right 

this is the living room
where we spent our late evenings
her color scheme is a fave of mine

• LODGING: Falmouth, unbeknownst to me when I booked the trip back in May, is a year round/all season town, meaning  even in the Autumn and Winter months, it's hopping. Most of the villages on the Cape are seasonal (Summer).  Even so, the rates were somewhat less expensive than if we were booking for July/August and the restaurants had very reasonable and similar to the Capital District of NYS, prices.  Cocktails and wine were about the same also.  We loved our Air BnB.  The superhost was so responsive and the  check in lock box worked perfectly. We each had a bedroom in a different color. Mine was done up in sea shades (blue-gray).  I didn't bother with pics of the rooms other than what you see above. The kitchen was the most well stocked of any AirBnB I've stayed in, in the past. She even had 6 different kinds of brand new coffee syrups. None of us use sweeteners in our coffee but it was nice to know they were there and so prettily  arranged. The neighborhood was quiet...even at school bus time!  She had a beautiful home. Everything was pristine so we gave her a 5 * review.  I'm thankful the home exceeded our expectations. 

We ate an early dinner here on Sunday evening
and then for Monday evening, we ate here around 7:30 pm
after stopping to see the sun set over Chapoquoit Beach

Sunday evening dinner and cocktails.
I had a peachy cosomos, Maggie in the middle had a cranberry mule,
 and Meg had a glass of chardonnay
We had an early dinner, around 5:30 pm
 because we didn't stop on the way to MA for lunch.
The place was hopping! 
I had forgotten that people on the Cape eat earlier than in NY or Boston

We ate at the Shipwrecked right on the ocean
and I ordered the Cod Fish Tacos with sweet potato fries.
Excellent food, service and cocktails.

Tuesday evening, our last evening on the Cape, 
was spent from 7 pm-9:30 pm in the local Irish Pub
where Meg and I had Mai Tais; Maggie (on the left) had a skinny colada drink
I ordered a blackened Caesar salad as I had had fish the previous 2 nights
We stayed and watched the Karaoke perfomances for about a half hour after dinner. 

• FISH/FOOD/COCKTAILS:  Oh my.  I had forgotten just how excellent "fish and chips" on the Cape can be.  I had fish tacos the first night made with excellent cod.  The waiter said it was caught that morning. I'm assuming he was correct. My husband has often told me the salmon and bluefish on the Cape are caught the same day as when we order it. It was truly the BEST fish tacos I ever had. The next night I had regular fish and chips but again, the cod was big and fresh and only lightly fried, which I was thankful for. The last evening, we opted to stay downtown as had shopped there all afternoon and had discovered an Irish pub where we had to wait a half hour for a seat but it was worth it. I was going to have the quinoa bowl with salmon but opted for the blackened chicken casear salad instead as I was craving some greens. Again, the food and service was top notch and they were short staffed that night! I wish we could get good, fresh fish here in the Albany, NY area but we just can't.  And it's much pricier here as well due to needing to be shipped. I'm thankful we all loved the food and it was Meg and Maggie's first time eating Cape Cod fish. 

Marina at the Knob 

We walked up to the Knob by first going on the Marina side
at Quissett Harbor
and walking along the rock strewn beach where I spied the 
largest piece of Driftwood I've ever seen.
 Even on the Cape, God was sending me a message
 (IYKYK!)

The Atlantic/Buzzards Bay from The Knob Walkway in Woods Hole, MA
We stopped here and spent about 15 minutes soaking in the sun, sand, and surf
The water was cold but it felt great..we just waded. 

We walked to the top of the Knob on Buzzards Bay
and took a group selfie even with our wind-blown hair!
l-r: Maggie, me, Meg

• FUN IN THE SUN!  We couldn't have asked God for better weather. We were so blessed to have perfect early Autumn weather on the Cape. In fact, it felt like summer  in the sun, minus the humidity and hot temps you get in June and July. We spent the first full morning at The Knob in Woods Hole. That night, we spent our time on a different side of Falmouth, at Chapaquoit (Chappy to the locals) Beach to see the sunset.  It was stunning. Our 2nd full day there, we spent at Nobska Lighthouse and did the tour, and then in the afternoon, we went shopping in downtown Falmouth where we all bought some  gifts and personal treasures. I bought my girls and Dave a little something, picked up a Christmas gift for my friend Joan, and bought myself a light cotton hoodie along with a pair of earrings. I'm very thankful my friends had fun on their first time on the Cape and that we had safe travels all over Falmouth as well. I'm also thankful for Google Maps and a good car since I did all the driving in an area I wasn't super familiar with. God is good! 

At Chappy Beach about 5:30pm 
Ke:ep in mind: the sun sets about an hour  earlier on the Cape
than in NYS and also rises earlier in the morning. 
High Tide was coming in....we sat on the beach steps

Starting to go down....this is about 6 pm

getting lower...the windsurfer we saw to the left of us
finally came in from the water around this time

There it goes.....this is about 6:13 PM 
note the reflection on the sand! 

• HISTORIC TOUR:  On Tuesday in the mid-morning, we headed over to Nobska Lighthouse, which I had seen from Dave's car in the past but I had never taken the tour. We were shocked at how inexpensive it was (we did get a senior discount).  The lighthouse was beautiful. There were 9 of us in our tour group and the history of the point and house were interesting to hear.  I even saw where our T---family beach house where we used to gather from 2001-2013, was on their large map at the top of the lighthouse. In fact, from the lighthouse, you have a good view of Buzzards Bay, the Canal going from the mainland to the Cape, Martha's Vineyard (directly across) and the Elizabeth Islands.  We could even see a bit of Rhode Island. The sky was so clear and the sun was brilliant. I'm thankful we popped over to the lighthouse and had a fun morning.  We also walked down to the beach there for some pics and to see the 9-11 memorial in honor of a local woman who died in the World Trade Center tragedy.  Here are some fave pics from that morning:

me and Meg at Nobska Lighthouse

a view of Buzzards Bay from the middle of the Lighthouse

Maggie and me at the Lighthouse 

Nobska Lighthouse in Falmouth MA

• QUIET TIMES:  I am also most thankful for the quiet times we all experienced while on our girls getaway. I had time in the morning, at the little kitchen table, with my coffee and Bible,  because I tend to get up between 6:30-7 and Maggie tends to sleep til 8-9 and Meg got up anywhere between 7-8 but chose to do her quiet time in her bedroom.  I also had time (as did Maggie) to work on our Gideon study and just pray and think.  I never want to take our Bible for granted or the friendships I have made through church. I'm so thankful for these 2 ladies whom I just met in the last 2 years because of my hiking group and small group yet with whom I connected with right away.  There's nothing like doing life with your good friends and sisters-in-Christ. 

image courtesy of thomas nelson bibles  site

That wraps up my week!

Tomorrow I have a hike to lead up a high peak in the Catskills Mountains with 4 members of SoulSteps.  Sunday, I have housework and small group prep to get caught up on while Dave is away visiting his mom, and Monday is the Annual Daughters Day away with my sister Joy and my 2 daughters.   After Monday, life will slow down a bit and I'll be back to a more normal routine. 

Whatever you have planned, embrace every moment and pause to give thanks!

AUTUMN FAVES

 

Here we are.....into our 2nd full week of Autumn and into October already. 

I'm sharing FIVE of my FAVE blessings from the past week with other grateful bloggers. Head over to the host's site to join in.

SoulSteps Hikers at OK Slip Falls lookout
l-r: Evelyn, me, Dave D, Charlie, Joan 
Missing from photo: Jill H

• FIRST SOULSTEPS AUTUMN HIKE:  Although I hiked up Rooster Comb Mountain with 2 friends a few days before this group hike, to celebrate the start of Autumn, this hike to one of the tallest Adirondack waterfalls was our first Autumn Semester SoulSteps hike. I originally had 8 people signed up.  It ended up being 6 of us. When our Capital Region area (where we all live) was having pouring rain and wind from the nor-easter last Saturday that was coming up the East Coast, we had very  good weather in the mountains. We started out with sunshine, then it got cloudy, then the sun came out again and it ended up not raining.  We are thankful we were able to do this 7 miles hike and not have it rain. Some of us stopped for a small cup of ice cream on the way home to celebrate our hiking success. The leaves were just starting to show some color last weekend. It should be peak up there by the middle of this next week. 

The top of the waterfalls up close: OK Slip 

Ok Slip Falls in the central Adirondacks
after a 3.5 miles hike into the deep woods 

• Fun Pic:  I was thrilled that our oldest daughter texted me a photo of her boyfriend and her from a state park I used to go to on Lake Ontario when I was in college!  Tyler and Courtney were out in the Rochester area last weekend to attend his 5th year class reunion and Homecoming at his alma mater, which is also mine, Roberts Wesleyan University (College,  until recently). They decided to pop in to Hamlin Beach State Park so she could see Lake Ontario up close as she had never been. I'm thankful they had a great weekend and had fun at Homecoming. 

Tyler and Courtney
at Hamlin Beach State Park on Lake Ontario
Rochester NY 

• QUICK REPAIR:  On Wednesday, I had to stick close to home because we had a gutter company coming to fix a loose trim piece above our gutter in the front of the house. Because we replaced all of our windows and doors with Renewal by Anderson (if you know how $$ those are, you'll understand this sentiment) and that piece of trim was starting to bang into one of the bedroom windows,so my husband hired a professional to come deal with it. The young man who came to do the work was the nicest person.  He even took pics so I could see where the damage was and carefully explained what he was going to do. After about 5 minutes, he rang the door bell again and asked if it was ok if he put an extra piece of  trim on as we were missing the back end of it and if he didn't fix that,  the water wouldn't properly run into the gutter. He explained the materials cost would be less than $20 (it was) and within 10 minutes I was writing him a check and he was on his way.  I was dreading the whole process as Dave has to go into the office on Tues/Wed/Thurs and can't work from home but because this young man took pics and explained everything in simple terms after I told him I knew nothing about gutters, I had a lot of peace about it and the entire project only took about 25 minutes! It also wasn't nearly as expensive of a repair as we were led to believe. I'm thankful for good workers! 

• PHONE CALL: My friend Joan and I talked for quite awhile on the phone this past week.  I can't go into details but it concerned a younger person we know who is very needy and struggling and needs professional help. This person has wanted us to "help" her but the relationships were beginning to be too much for us.  Just knowing that we both have made our church leadership aware of what's been happening on our end, and that we both feel like we need to step back, really helped.  It is good to have friends  who share your concern for others but who also discern when you can no longer help. We both prayed at the end of our conversation for each other and for the young woman and this made me especially thankful that I have a friend I can lean on and trust and who seems to be very discerning, and feels the way I do about our roles as small group leaders. The icing on the cake? Our Spiritual Formations Director who works full time for our church and is our "boss" in our roles as small group leaders, sent out a leader-wide email explaining that sometimes we need to allow the members of our various groups and ministries to struggle. That it is not our role to step in and be their "Messiah" (which is what this girl wanted...she's not even a member of Joan's or my ministries although she was a member of the hiking group last year).  He reminded us that only Jesus can really "fix" people. That God would give us discernment over which people to come alongside and that we do need to be praying for all of our members of course but that we don't need to "rescue" every one. It was so timely!

Veggie White Za

• EASY DINNER:  This past week I had a lot of fresh veggies to use up along with some mozzarella cheese.  So I made homemade white veggie pizza:  I buy the frozen pizza dough and thaw it out overnight in the fridge. About a half hour before needing it, I place it on the counter to warm up as then it's easier to roll out.  I had red, green and yellow peppers to use up along with a sweet onion and broccoli. I use extra virgin olive oil on the crust and then sprinkle on basil, oregano and freshly minced garlic. Then i add all the rest of the veggies and the mozzarella and then sprinkle on paremsan cheese. The salad was mainly baby romaine, some leftover buttercrunch, cucumbers, tomato and carrots. The pizza came out great and Dave took the leftovers in his lunch the next day. I love a nice easy dinner and am thankful for fresh veggies. 

BONUS FAVE: 

His and Hers ice cream!

I typically don't eat cow's milk ice cream any longer unless it is soft serve.  I tend to buy the Oatly brand of ice cream made with oat milk. It's so creamy and no animal fat!  BUT....this past week, our iconic  convenience store (only found in NYS with headquarters in Saratoga Springs, the small city near us) had all 33 flavors of hard ice cream on sale.  That's 2 half gallons for $8! The regular non-sale price is $5.99. So I surprised Dave with his favorite flavor: Chocolate Peanut Butter cup and I bought myself the Brew HA-HA which is basically like a cup of coffee with espresso bean chocolate flakes.  These will last us a while as we don't eat dessert every evening. I'm thankful for a great sale!

That wraps up my last week of September!  I'm off to Cape Cod with my friends Maggie and Meg for a mini girls retreat from Sunday to Wednesday. We have an adorable AirBnB ranch style house in Falmouth and neither Maggie nor Meg (who is originally from Indiana) have ever been on the Cape. I'm super thankful we get to do this and that our husbands will be fine with us away. 

2026 Book Review #30:Sharp Force

 

This is a book series I've enjoyed for many years now. 

I've read all of the Dr Kay Scarpetta books in order and this one didn't fully  disappoint me, although it's not one of her best, in my opinion.  This is book 29 in the series. 

STORY SUMMARY 

There is a serial killer in Washington, D.C area and he/she is known as the Phantom Stalker. He stalks victims with very sophisticated technology that allows him to invade homes and spy on their every move. The victims often wake up to a ghost-like hologram and then are murdered right in their beds. 

It's the early hours of Christmas morning and the Stalker has struck again.

Dr Kay Scarpetta, chief medical examiner/forensic pathologist, is called to go to Mercy Island which is the site of a notorious psychiatric hospital where two people have been viciously brutalized. One victim, Zain Willard, the nephew of a presidential candidate, is still alive and in the hospital with horrible cuts to his body. 

The other victim is someone from Kay's past.....and from her genius niece Lucy's past as well.......

And it soon becomes apparent that Dr Scarpetta could be the next Phantom Stalker victim.

Who will discover the identity behind this killer and will it be soon? 

MY THOUGHTS

This wasn't one of my fave Dr Scarpetta novels.  It was a bit sluggish to me in the middle and usually I can read one of these books in 2-3 days. This took longer than a week for me to trudge through it yet I did enjoy it...it was just slow going and I think mainly because it focused so much on the technology.  At least that's how it felt to me. 

Then the ending was so abrupt that it was kind of unbelievable whereas in past novels, it leads up to an exciting climax and then boom. This lacked the excitement to me. 

I always love the characters that have been developed over the years, and the various personalities that are displayed in their back stories or the plot behind the main plot.  This book does a great job with looking at the relationship between Marino (former police detective) and his wife Dorothy (Lucy's difficult mom and sister to Dr Kay).  We also see something new...but not surprising....with Dorothy and Benton, (FBI profiler) who is married to Kay.   I liked the subplot with the characters more than I did the main plot. 

I found no editing errors in this book nor was there a ton of swearing.  I always appreciate that about this author. 

In my opinion, this book is appropriate for ages 17 and older (Due to some mature content).

On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the highest, I rate this an 8. 

Autumn HodgePodge Meme

Indian Lake, NY
Saturday 27 September

I'm joining in on the Autumnal Hodgepodge this week. Head to this blog to read more.

1. When you think of autumn what sounds come to mind? 

the crackle of the wood in our bonfire pit; the cry of the geese flying south overhead; the shouts of the neighbor children being released from the school bus in the late afternoons; the crunch of the leaves in the woods as I hike. 

2.  Is a trip to the mountains something you enjoy? 

What do you think??  Have you  ever even  read anything on this blog?? hahah Omgosh. Of course!  I lead 2 hikes a week July-November. All are in the mountains (most are in the Adirondacks with a couple in the Catskills or the Green Mts of Vermont).  From mid-March to June I lead 1-2 hikes a week as well but usually in the Spring season, we do some deep woods hikes not just mountains. 

Here's my most recent climb: 

on the summit of Rooster Comb
That's Giant Mt in the background...
the first high peak I climbed in 1978 at the age of 18

And a few days before that: 

another half mile to the summit of Jay Mountain
High Peaks region ADK 
in front: Ping
l-r: Joan, me, Michelle 

What's your favorite mountain? (to a hiker, that's kind of  a stupid question. No offense to whomever thought up this question.)  It's way too difficult to have one fave mountain. Especially when you hike all of the various mountains in the Adirondacks as much as I do.  I guess if I only hiked a couple of times a year, I might have a fave.  How about I answer with my fave mountain to climb depending on which region I'm in??  But that would take too long so just now that every mountain I have climbed (I've climbed 3 just in the week and a half and don't have time to today to share how many I've climbed in my life time)  But let's say my fave mountain in the High Peaks region of the Adirondacks:  Rooster Comb Mt 

A better question would be "What is your least fave mountain and why?"  For me? that would be Snowy Mt (4000').  It was so difficult we all were in tears while scrambling on all 4s to reach the top.  Is located in the Central Adirondacks in the town of Indian Lake. Plus the fire tower was in rough shape so we couldn't make it to the top of that, although we did make it to the summit after 3.5 hours of climbing.  Total miles:  7.5 I've hiked longer ones that were easier. 

3. What's something that once felt like a mountain, but is now just a molehill? 

the "drama" surrounding an extended family event (Am not going into details!) 

4. Let's play this or that-fall foods edition. Yes you have to choose. 

• pumpkin spice latte or chai latte:  Chai Latte  
• apple cider or hot chocolate: Cold Apple cider   
• stew or chili: both
• sweet potato casserole or green bean casserole: sweet potato 
• butternut squash soup or creamy mushroom soup : Butternut squash
• cranberry sauce or gravy: both 

5. Sum up your September in a sentence or two. 

Super stupendous and busy and filled with amazing moments with my close friends in the mountains.  

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I'm loving having the time to decorate for Autumn this week and to pack for my "Friends retreat" on Cape Cod beginning Sunday! 

Front yard beneath the cherry tree

Family room decor 

More autumnal decor in the family room 

  HAPPY WEDNESDAY!!