Here we are into November already! What a mild Autumn we have had here in eastern New York State! I've been loving the mild temps and the sunshine/blue skies and now even some rain that was badly needed.
I'm also loving to look back at the week and find FIVE blessings that top my FAVES list. I have had a lot of blessings this week, as we all do when we are mindful of them but here are my top FIVE. To learn more about this gratitude meme, head over to Susanne's blog.
FIVE FAVES
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| Beyond Beef Plant based chili this was a hit!! |
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| mild Chicken Chili |
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| toppings: Scallions, red onion, shredded cheese, crushed tortilla chips |
| Dave and I relaxing in the backyard swing before our guests arrived |
| let the burning of the brush begin! |
- CHILI AND WINE PARTY! Last Saturday was the perfect Autumn day for our scheduled chili and wine party/bonfire. Dave and I used to host these autumnal parties every year from the time we joined our church in 2005 until the kids went to college. There were a couple of years we had to skip hosting due to family events and the last time we hosted one was during Covid 2021! So when Dave mentioned to me earlier that week, that we needed to get back to doing hospitatlity with our friends, I organized the chili and wine party. We invited our friends Maggie and Bill, Joan and Thom, Meg and Charlie (who couldn't be there due to being in Indiana for a family event) and Eveyln and Mark (our oldest daughter's future in-laws). We all had a blast. I warned everyone that I don't eat beef so the "beef" chili was actually plant based and every single person loved it! There were not many leftovers! We had wine that 2 of us contributed to, and I had other drinks like sparkling waters, still water, beer, and ginger beer (non alcoholic) along with some cans of mocktails (non alcoholic). We also had desserts. We ended up burning almost all of the brush we had to burn before winter sets in. We all hung outdoors from 1-6 pm! It was so much fun to get to know everyone more and outside of a church event that we vowed we would do this again every few months. I'm so thankful for brothers and sisters in Christ to fellowship with and do life with. I was so busy having fun talking and hosting that I only took the pics that are above.
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| a possible choice for mother-of-the-bride gown approved by Courtney |
- BUDGET MEETING: Our oldest daughter, as most of you know, is now engaged and they are choosing a late September or early October wedding. Courtney requested a meeting with us for Sunday afternoon so we had her over for dinner and talked budget. Dave gave her a ballpark figure of what we were willing to help them with and then I asked her about dresses. She wants colors of dusty blue or sage green as apparently those 1990s colors are back and on trend for weddings! (who knew??) So I had found the above pic on a bridal website and she loves it! I'm going to order the fabric sample first to make sure this is what she wants me to wear but she basically is leaving it up to me. She said she wants Evelyn and I to just wear something we love and that we feel comfortable in. I'm thankful the process of wedding planning has begun smoothly.
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- LUNCHEON: Tuesday, after I voted and did some household chores, I headed over to church to our gym where the "Over 55 Luncheon" was taking place. Our special speaker was the young lady in charge of our KidVenture (Sunday School) program for birth through grade 5. She did a great job and all of the food people brought (it's potluck style...i did up a huge veggie and crackers/cheese platter with lemon beet hummus) was delicious and a good variety. I sat with my friend Maggie and at the same table was our Psalms friend Heather plus 2 older men I had never met. One was the husband of one of the luncheon volunteers so it was nice to meet him. Our church has 2 services both of which tend to have an average of 800 people per service (a 9 and an 11 AM service every Sunday) so it's hard to get to know everyone! I'm thankful the luncheon was a nice way to spent Election Day. Talking politics is frowned upon at a church event or small group Bible study, etc as it's too divisive so it was nice to get away from election talk. Our pastor did encourage us to get out and vote. I'm thankful for various events at our church and for the fellowship with friends and meeting new people.
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| Panther Mt via the Giant Ledge trail Elevation: 3720'! A Catskills High Peak, RT= 7 miles This is the mountain I climbed on Wed |
- HIGH PEAK CLIMB! I had a scheduled SoulSteps hike (the hiking club I lead) for Wed in the Catskills which are between Albany and NYC, NY. The trail we were heading to is called Giant Ledge. There are 5 main ledges along the trail overlooking the Catskills high peaks. Three of us were signed up but one person had to bow out due to an infection in her ear. That left my friend Joan and I. We were planning on doing the 4 miles RT hike to all 5 ledges and then be home by 4 pm. That didn't happen. We chose, instead, to do all 5 ledges and then for an extra grueling 1.9 miles, we hiked further up to the summit of Panther Mt which is the 18th highest peak in the Catskills. The Catskills are not real mountains like the Adirondacks. The high peaks in the ADK are 4000' and higher and are real mountains. The Catskills' High peaks are 3500' and higher but none are as high as 5000'. They also are not real mountains. This article explains it. The high peaks in the Catskills are much easier to climb than in the ADK so we decided to go for it. It was grueling due to all the rocks we had to climb up and over. Here are my fave pics from the day. I'm thankful we had such a great day even though we hiked out in the dusk of the setting sun. We were home by 7:45 PM so it was a long day but a fantastic one! This was my third Catskills High Peak and my 8th high peak overall including 4 in the ADK and the highest peak in Vermont (Mt Mansfield). It was Joan's first time hiking in the Catskills and her first ever high peak!
| beginning of the Giant Ledge trail was pretty flat |
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| Giant Ledge #1: there was a sheer drop off behind me! photo compliments of Joan |
| This type of rock is what we climbed for the first mile up to the summit AFTER hiking up 2 miles to the ledges This is Joan climbing up |
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| Joan and I on the summit of Panther Mt we are at 3720 ' elevation the summit was only partially exposed |
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| This part of the trail is just beyond the summit and goes back down the other side of the mountain as there are 2 approaches up Panther. We explored a little ways down. |
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| It took a little over an hour to head back down the mountain and then we still had another 1.5 miles to get back to the car! This is me, taken by Joan, as I begin the descent. |
- MUSIC and SCRIPTURE: I'm very thankful for good Christian music to listen to on the way to our hikes, and for talking about Scripture. Joan texted me yesterday morning, the day after our big hike, to tell me to read Nov 4th's entry in the Jesus Calling devotional. It was perfect and went along with some of what we were talking about on the car ride down to the Catskills! We both have the devotional book so we try to read each entry each day. We both didn't have time for it the morning of the hike. I instead had read the plan I'm doing in the You Version Bible app. I'm just so thankful for the Word of God, no matter what form you use, and for close friends who are encouraging each other.
That wraps up my faves for the week.
I hope you have a relaxing weekend, doing some of the things you love.


























