It's the first Monday of the month, which means it's time for Marriage Monday, hosted by the very informative E-Mom from Chrysalis blog. Her blog is packed with all kinds of things to aid us on our Christian journey, as well as helping to guide us in our marriages. This is a meme where several Christian women write about life as a married person.....with Christ in the midst of it all!
This month's topic included 3 titles to choose from so I chose the first one which is "A Cord of Three Strands is not Quickly Broken"
I was drawn to this title because the reference was one that my husband of 20 years (Dave) and I used in our Wedding Program. It is a very important concept to remember and it is a promise from God, as well. Here is the entire portion of Scripture, taken from the New King James version of the Bible:
"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up---Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one be warm alone? Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken."
Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12
If a married couple are united and committed, they are better together than apart. (assuming that they are both emotionally-balanced, non-abusive, Christ-followers, seeking the will of God for their marriage).
Now, both people have their own personalities, preferences, and passions. Each person has his/her own love language and spiritual temperament. So....combined, they must learn to respect the other's different styles, etc.
However, you can still be united in marriage if you are committed to that marriage.
If God is in the midst of your marriage.....He is the One who holds the marriage together. A 3 strand cord, from what I have been told, is strong. It cannot unravel. That 3rd strand is intertwined around the other 2, making it strong and stable. The 3 strands are bound together.
A man and a woman are commanded by God to cleave together (be united). We are to make sacrifices for one another and be committed to love each other for life. This is a sacred covenant! Perfect love gives freely and unconditionally, although, of course, we are human, and only Jesus loves us with "no strings attached". We are to strive to be "like Christ" (Christians) therefore, in the marriage relationship, above all others, we are to be united, love freely and unconditionally.
If we allow Christ to be our "third strand"...the One who holds us together, our marriages will be strong, stable, and any outside forces that try to come against it, will have a more difficult time......God binds us together and His Power is greater than any other power on the earth. This is, of course, also a picture of the Trinity (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). Our marriages must be a reflection of God.
a Three-Strand Cord...wrapped together...
The Trinity of God.....with the Love of Jesus, the guidance and comfort of the Holy Spirit, and the Wisdom of the Father....
will produce a covenant that displays unified love, forgiveness, mercy, and grace....
A Sacred Covenant: Marriage.
However, you can still be united in marriage if you are committed to that marriage.
A man and a woman are commanded by God to cleave together (be united). We are to make sacrifices for one another and be committed to love each other for life. This is a sacred covenant! Perfect love gives freely and unconditionally, although, of course, we are human, and only Jesus loves us with "no strings attached". We are to strive to be "like Christ" (Christians) therefore, in the marriage relationship, above all others, we are to be united, love freely and unconditionally.
If we allow Christ to be our "third strand"...the One who holds us together, our marriages will be strong, stable, and any outside forces that try to come against it, will have a more difficult time......God binds us together and His Power is greater than any other power on the earth. This is, of course, also a picture of the Trinity (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). Our marriages must be a reflection of God.
a Three-Strand Cord...wrapped together...
The Trinity of God.....with the Love of Jesus, the guidance and comfort of the Holy Spirit, and the Wisdom of the Father....
will produce a covenant that displays unified love, forgiveness, mercy, and grace....
A Sacred Covenant: Marriage.
8 comments:
"If a married couple are united and committed, they are better together than apart." Your quote and I really really agree! Thanks for sharing!
What a lovely post, raising some really important points. I chose the same topic - it really resonate with me. It's wonderful to read your thoughts on it.
Such inspiration.
The trinitarian concept of this verse is so appealing, isn't it? God has used this recurring theme over and over throughout his creation. Once we get it, it's hard to miss!
You and Dave a certainly a wonderful example of a three-fold cord. Your blog is always brimming with faith and joy, and deep expressions of love and respect for your husband.
It's always a pleasure to visit. I appreciate your continuing strong support of Marriage Monday!
Hugs 'n Blessings,
e-Mom ღ
I like what you said that "God binds us together and His Power is greater than any other power on the earth." an inspiring post!
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So true! When we put God at the center of our marriage, He can see us through even the darkest of days. Beautiful post!
When I am asked, (usually at Bridal Showers this question comes up)to give advice to new Brides on marriage, I ALWAYS say-RESPECT!
Respect is crucial to a thriving marriage! Respect appreciates and acknowledges the uniqueness each of us brings to our marriage. Respect places the other person and their ideas, dreams and insights equal to our own input. Respect listens and doesn't interrupt! Respect doesn't belittle or de-value a person, it builds them up and tells them that they are just as important. let's face it, we are open to listening to someone if we feel we are respected by them!
Great post today!
A cord of 3 strands is the sweetest and strongest love triange that will never fade and collapse. Thanks for reminding me of the complete verses usually said during weddings.
God bless you and Dave, Faith.
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